Cyberbullying
Electronic or cyberbullying is using electronic media to threaten, embarrass, intimidate, exclude or damage someone’s reputation. It can cause enormous pain.
Cyberbullying is different from face-to-face bullying
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Cyberbullying can be anonymous.
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People tend to say more hurtful, cruel things because of the anonymity.
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The person doing the cyberbullying does not have to see the reaction and pain of the person they are hurting.
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People who would not bully someone in person might do so online because they can hide.
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Some people cyberbully simply out of boredom.
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It is very difficult for the person being targeted by cyberbullying to escape.
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Bullying via electronic media has a huge number of bystanders... and a huge number of people who can stand up to the bullying.
Cyberbullying tips
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Protect your personal information online—never give out your passwords, even to your closest friends.
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Before you send a text, ask yourself if you are ok if the whole world sees it because private messages and photos can go public.
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Remind yourself that you do not deserve to be bullied or harassed.
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If someone is cyberbullying you, ask for help, find tips to help protect yourself at www.cybertip.ca and www.cyberbullying.ca, and always save any messages you receive as evidence.
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Be kind online. Do not post or pass on anything negative about another person. Stop and think:
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How would you feel if someone did this to you?
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What would an adult whose opinions you respect, such as a coach or grandparent, think of your actions?
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How would you feel if your actions were reported on the front page of a newspaper?
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Would you say this to the person’s face?
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In a month or a year or a decade, will you be happy you posted something unkind?
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Laws and penalties against cyberbullying are getting tougher all the time.
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Once you post it, it’s out there for all to see—you can apologize, but you can’t take it back.
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Refuse to forward hurtful emails, text messages or embarrassing photos to friends—by refusing to pass it on, you become part of the solution.
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Block people who spread rumours online.
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Avoid websites that feature negative information about other students.
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