Discipline is a complex and challenging issue. Use each opportunity as a teaching moment.
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Do NOT hit children
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Discipline when you are calm – not when you are angry
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Separate yourself from the child when you are very upset
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Model appropriate, safe behaviour; remember children learn by watching and copying adults
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Show, explain and encourage positive behaviours
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Talk through problems; try not to raise your voice or use negative language – hurtful words are ineffective
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Set boundaries and provide clear consequences before a problem occurs; use safe, natural consequences
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Be consistent, firm and fair
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Use time-outs
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Teach children why it’s not okay to break rules
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Know what to expect from children at different ages
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Respect and know the uniqueness of your child
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Remember that healthy discipline takes time and patience.